Totally Married (kids, family)
168 - When Your Friend Cheats!

After a hefty  (and well deserved) plug for Andy's new podcast dropping this week (Totally Beverages & Sometimes Hot Sauce!) Elizabeth and Andy dive into a bevy of listener questions about what's the deal with public hair grooming these days, how to handle navigating a new relationship when his last one ended in mystery, what to do when your partner leaves for long stretches of time without being in touch and doesn't feel the need to justify or apologize, what to do about the vegan in the dinner group, how to motivate a spouse to join you in a journey to good health, and lastly, what does one do when you are questioned by your bestie's girlfriend about whether or not he's cheating... When he is, and she's your friend too. Enjoy!

Direct download: TotallyMarriedEp168.mp3
Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EST

167 - Scaturday Morning!

I guess the title says it all? Andy and Elizabeth discuss some scat before discussing at length some awesome and interesting follow ups to last week's episode. Then they dive into giving their unqualified advice to listener questions about what to do about a spouse who won't pull his weight financially, what is the most polite way to break up with someone, where do middle class families live in LA, and lastly, from last week's teaser - how to navigate the fine line between fantasy and social obligation? Enjoy!

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Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EST

166 - The Magical Bag!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss their recent voyage and why Elizabeth feels not worthy of a newly acquired accessory before discussing listener questions about moving into an inherited hoarder house with your partner, how to recover from a massive blow to one's sexual self esteem in the marriage, and whether or not to take the risk to make a living doing what you love versus staying in the safe financial spot but not enjoying the work. Enjoy!

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Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EST

165 - A Passive Aggressive Note!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss his recent "alleged" impulse purchase at Spencer's gifts before diving in with their unqualified advice to listener questions about introducing more sex into the relationship, how to handle a volatile neighbor who might be neglecting their dogs, what to do about wedding gift etiquette when you're not invited to the actual wedding, how to handle a strained relationship with a father after he betrayed the whole family, and lastly, what to do about a boyfriend of two years who still introduces you as "his friend." Enjoy!

Direct download: TotallyMarriedEp165.mp3
Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EST

164 - K-Cup w/ Dr. Ro Ro!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss their recent Chipotle (mis)adventures before doling out their highly unqualified advice to listener questions about inviting an unwelcome guest to a bachelorette party, how to form meaningful friendships in your early twenties, what to do about a marriage that in't fulfilling and leans towards toxicity/indifference, whether or not to make a big bold move to NYC even without a job lined up, how to handle a horrible situation of being hit on by a friend's husband, and what's the deal with guys simply vanishing out of thin air after dating for a while? Enjoy!

Direct download: TotallyMarriedEp164.mp3
Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EST

163 - A Little Good With The Bad!

Elizabeth starts today's episode with a little story about a heart-lifting moment she witnessed before she and Andy give their unqualified advice to listener questions about how to handle a breakup when you still have to live under the same roof, what to do about a boyfriend whose response to conflict is to just ignore you, how to handle the long painful road that is infertility, what to do about hurt feelings over your sisters bridal party, how to handle the feelings that come along with a lost wedding ring, what Elizabeth's thoughts are on "112 Weddings" a documentary about marriage, how cope with the loss of a beloved pet, and lastly, how to handle the "stuff" that's from a now estranged relative. Enjoy!

Direct download: TotallyMarriedEp163.mp3
Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EST

162 - Mind Over Matter!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss her recent weird sickness and how mind really can trump matter, apparently, plus Andy's revelation that he might, indeed, be psychic! Then they give their *highly* unqualified advice to listener questions about how to move forward from a major infidelity (that the writer-inner had to LISTEN to, uggh!,) feeling jealous of the social aspect of your husband's job, whether or not to move out of your parents house as an adult when they are not ready to let go, how to handle social events with specific eating preferences, and what to do when visiting So Cal? (Laimeweds, please leave feedback in the comments!) Enjoy!

Direct download: TotallyMarriedEp162.mp3
Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EST

161 - Bro-in' Out!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss gratitude and follow up on last week's debate about why Andy doesn't get the out and about love that he deserves before answering listener questions about whether or not it's kosher to date your best friend's ex, budgeting for a wedding, what's the proper city etiquette, how to proceed with a partner who won't go to therapy, and what to do when you've found a great match but they have just ended a terrible relationship? Enjoy!

Direct download: TotallyMarriedEp161.mp3
Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EST

160 - Unapologetically Himself!

Andy and Elizabeth discuss why some people don't seem to be very warm to Andy when they are to other people, before answering listener questions about finding new love after divorce and kids, what to do when two people with illnesses are in a marriage and need care of their own, whether or not to proceed with a rekindled friendship when the friend's partner leaves a lot to be desired, how to handle division of household duties with a partner who is also handling the bulk of childcare, how to move on from an ex relationship that still takes up a lot of brain space even though the new relationship is a happy one, and lastly, what's the most graceful way to break up with a long term boyfriend when there's been cheating involved. Enjoy!

Direct download: TotallyMarriedEp160.mp3
Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EST

159 - Pathological Liars!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss the fun and light topic of pathological liars and what happens when you find something out about someone that changes your entire perspective on them. Then they answer listener questions about how to deal with a negative nelly sister, what to do when someone puts DICK PILLS in your tea (first ever punked post?), how to move on from a major infidelity by your husband of fourteen years, and what to do when your partner and you want to live in different cities. Enjoy!

Direct download: TotallyMarriedEp159.mp3
Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EST