Totally Married (kids, family)
160 - Unapologetically Himself!

Andy and Elizabeth discuss why some people don't seem to be very warm to Andy when they are to other people, before answering listener questions about finding new love after divorce and kids, what to do when two people with illnesses are in a marriage and need care of their own, whether or not to proceed with a rekindled friendship when the friend's partner leaves a lot to be desired, how to handle division of household duties with a partner who is also handling the bulk of childcare, how to move on from an ex relationship that still takes up a lot of brain space even though the new relationship is a happy one, and lastly, what's the most graceful way to break up with a long term boyfriend when there's been cheating involved. Enjoy!

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Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EDT

159 - Pathological Liars!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss the fun and light topic of pathological liars and what happens when you find something out about someone that changes your entire perspective on them. Then they answer listener questions about how to deal with a negative nelly sister, what to do when someone puts DICK PILLS in your tea (first ever punked post?), how to move on from a major infidelity by your husband of fourteen years, and what to do when your partner and you want to live in different cities. Enjoy!

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158 - The Dumbest Thing Ever Said!

Freshly back from their Oregon vacay, Elizabeth and Andy discuss the good times before Elizabeth says literally the dumbest thing she or anyone has ever said. Then they discuss follow ups before giving their un-qualified advice to listener questions regarding a cheating/toxic friend (trash bag) and whether or not to intervene, or give advice to a friend who is in a ne

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Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EDT

157 - Invention-ness!

In this pre-recorded episode, Elizabeth and Andy discuss her "passion" for inventing before diving into listener questions about what to do when you see an overheated dog in a car, whether or not it's a good idea to hook up with your weed dealer, how to get your husband to compliment your postpartum bod without fishing for compliments, what to do if you are the only giver in a relationship, whether it's a good idea to continue a relationship with the family members of an ex, and lastly, how to cope when your spouse suffers from erectile dysfunction? Enjoy!

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Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EDT

156 - What's Up Portland!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss the major repercussions to her over enthusiastic responses to people before diving into listener questions about whether or not there's a "girl code" in a friends with benefits relationship, what Andy's suggestions are for visiting Missoula, MT, if it's appropriate to take over an elderly dog's care (or euthanasia) for a grandmother suffering from Alzheimer's, what E and A's feelings are in about living with constant dread about the other shoe dropping in life, if one should pay close attention to social cues during a threesome, and lastly how do you know if a relationship is worth fighting for? Enjoy!

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Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EDT

155 - Don't Be A Trash Bag!

In this 3-parter episode (broken up in chunks due to a power outage and a crying baby - sorry!) Elizabeth and Andy discuss their latest foray into "the good life" (A chef! Pilates! Central Air! Oh wait, nevermind) before diving into listener questions about division of labor amongst couples (how do I get him to do anything?!) whether or not it's appropriate to share this filthy podcast with a respectable female friend, whether or not Andy and Elizabeth still share their one gratitude a day with each other, if a relationship is moving too fast when it's happening before the previous divorce is final, how to reconnect with a dad who has a new ball and chain, and then a doozy of a question about a husband who might not be willing to stay in the relationship if the wife is unable to conceive. Enjoy!

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Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EDT

154 - Use The Word Mommy!

E and A discuss their recent misadventures to the Children's Hospital ER before diving into an important follow up regarding a gent and his "escort" plus new listener questions about whether or not it's possible to be in love with two people at once, how to deal with a hoarder mother in law, whether a young long distance relationship is worth it, whether or not to act on a crush on your boss, how to ask for more day to day communication from you partner, how to find a kick ass couples therapist, and lastly, what to do when your boyfriend is a little (a lottle!) bit too connected to his mommy? Enjoy!

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Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EDT

153 - Suckitude!

No denying it, today is a sucky day for Elizabeth but Andy helps her put things into perspective per usual! Then they answer listener questions about whether or not "he's the one" if marriage isn't an exciting proposition, how to deal with a brother in law's relationship with your spouse that is drama-filled, what it was like moving from St. Louis to the big city(ies!), how to handle a "scheduled" breakup with friends and the social engagements around it, and lastly, is it okay to skip a wedding if you're not feeling up to it? Enjoy!

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152 - Purple Dildo Surprise!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss the follow up to her spiritual crisis as well as their latest heated discussion regarding black out shades. Then they dive into listener questions about surprise purple dildos, functioning in a relationship where the conversation has stalled, and how to cope with a boyfriend who is great in every way except that he's a total slob and doesn't take care of himself. Enjoy!

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151 - Spiritual Crisis!

Elizabeth goes on quiiiite a journey in today's episode regarding spirituality and what "it all" means before she and Andy answer listener questions about romantic inexperience, whether or not to rescue a pup, and one of our all time favorite questions about hugging as a form of prostitution. Enjoy!

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Category:kids, family -- posted at: 1:30am EDT