Totally Married (general)

Elizabeth discusses her recent, sudden bout of pregnancy body image issues before she and Andy answer listener questions about texting etiquette, crazy sister-in-law problems, long distance relationships, and having overnight guests when space is limited! Enjoy!

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Elizabeth and Andy check in after a few days of feeling a little untethered, then they give their unqualified advice on listener questions about leaving a career for family, pursuing a crush when they are a best friend to your best friend, what sort of dog to adopt to overcome a fear, and lastly, how to navigate a changing friendship as the parties are entering different life stages. Enjoy!

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E and A discuss how today's texting and social media has created a disconnect that is STILL not okay when it comes to breaking up. Also, we share one of the best voicemails ever recorded, before answering listener questions about communicating in marriage when feelings are off limits, how to navigate making a baby when your partner is having a hard time performing, and lastly, an interesting question on one of our greatest hits topics - pubic hair! Enjoy!

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Andy makes a MAJOR (not really:) announcement before he and Elizabeth answer listener questions about how to handle it when your spouse won't participate in dreaming of the future with you, whether to maintain a friendship that isn't giving back, what to do when your partner won't go downtown (if you know what we mean!), whether to broach the subject of getting fertility testing early on, and lastly what's a girl to do when her partner of three years has yet to say those three little words?! Enjoy!

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Not for the faint of heart, this episode gets into some TMI territory with a story from E's recent midwife appt, plus E and A answer listener questions about finding some income working part time from home, how to break into voiceover work, what to do when your spouse thinks YOU have it so good, and lastly, how to set some boundaries with a less than considerate mother in law. Enjoy!

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E and A discuss materialism and consumerism versus just wanting to look cool, man! Plus listener questions about how to deal with a partner who is depressed but won't seek treatment, whether or not to give pregnancy another try after a traumatic loss and a ticking clock, how to get closure after a close friend simply stops responding, and how to end a friendship when one person has outgrown the other. Enjoy!

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E and A discuss a recent study/video that shows the strong link between happiness and expressing gratitude before diving into listener questions about losing one's faith in a religion when the marriage was founded in that faith, bad tattoos, and a heartbreaking question about how to cope with a daughter who is suffering from an eating disorder - Laimeweds, please leave any much appreciated advice in the comments below. Enjoy!

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104 - Massage Mistake!

Elizabeth details her recent foray into mall massage madness and how it went wrong. Then she and Andy answer listener questions about our own nicknames, how to overcome a creative roadblock, how to deal with having put the I Love You out there and now waiting for it in return, how to find and fit in some cheap and romantic dates when time is tight, and lastly, what to do decorating-wise with perpetually blank walls? Enjoy!

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Elizabeth and Andy discuss his love for eateries that "look shitty" as well as Elizabeth's new found appreciation for a good deal before answering listener questions about whether or not to stay in a relationship after two strikes, how to be there for your spouse when you are dealing with a terrible loss together, how last names work in gay marriage, and how to navigate a sticky situation with a mother in law and her desire to move in, eeep! Enjoy!

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E and A discuss how corporations are able to "Target" us silly little consumers before discussing listener questions about differences in age in a relationship, whether or not it's a good idea to stay in a relationship because of the kids, how to get better at communicating in conflict with your partner, and whether or not it's worth the worry about marrying someone who has only been intimate with one person. Enjoy!

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