Totally Married (general)

Andy and Elizabeth discuss recent bizarre behavior witnessed at a local eatery as well as why a potentially successful tryst of Andy's was cut short back in the day. Then they answer listener questions about how to handle receiving a gift that is just too much, whether or not to try to get pregnant when your other health ducks aren't in a row, where to move when you are sick of seasons and rednecks, and how to handle a husband who can't remember to do anything asked of him and also has some potential insecurity issues. Enjoy!

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Andy and Elizabeth embark on some serious virgin territory in today's episode - they discuss their "first times" as well as what the appropriate age and experience is, in their unqualified opinions. They also discuss moving on from a crush, road rage, and guns! Naturally! Enjoy!

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Andy and Elizabeth discuss ways to spice up their routine before addressing follow ups to older episodes. Then they answer listener questions about how to deal with immature sister in laws, whether to cut the chord on a marriage after a challenging separation, how to be a supportive friend to the singleton in the group, and lastly, what are the bucket list to-do items for someone before turning thirty? Enjoy!

Direct download: Totally_Married_Ep89.mp3
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Andy is trying out a new thing: Coffee! E and A talk coffee and lots of it and then dive into other things they'd like to fix about each other before giving their unqualified advice to listener questions about dating someone who suffers from hypochondria, how to move beyond a betrayal in a relationship, and how to tell if a personality annoyance is just that - an annoyance - or is it a deal breaker? Enjoy!

Direct download: Totally_Married_ep88.mp3
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This one's a doozy! After discussing the sadness of marriages from a few posts in the fertility/pregnancy forums, Andy and Elizabeth answer listener questions about grappling with feelings of discrimination after a bad experience, how to convince your husband to adopt, and lastly, whether it's worth it to find a new therapist when the one you have isn't quite cutting it. This last listener question then devolves into a session of Elizabeth and Andy creating a new psychiatric fantasy for himself! Enjoy!

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E and A check in after a long day that involved an annoying but potentially meaningful interaction at the post office for Elizabeth and recording his guitar-hero shredding for Andy, NBD.  Then they move onto listener questions about whether or not to adopt a pup to help fill a void, how to request a little more romance from a run down husband, and how to handle letting people know that you are struggling and could use some support. Enjoy!

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Elizabeth and Andy have both taken personality tests on humanmetrics.com - they discuss the results and see how different their personalities really are! Then they dive into listener questions about how to deal with an incredibly insensitive Sister in Law, how to navigate dating in your forties in a small town, and lastly a question about Andy's "drinking days" and how he's been able to move on from them. Enjoy!

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Elizabeth and Andy talk through some wacky but true sex laws - did you know that in MA, a woman cannot be on top?! Then they dive into listener questions about potential jobs in the field of language, how to make each other feel extra special and loved after marriage, whether it's okay to ask for cash instead of registering for wedding gifts, and lastly, how to handle a boyfriend who is jealous of your social life but seems to have no motivation to cultivate one of his own. Enjoy!

Direct download: Totally_Married_ep84.mp3
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Elizabeth and Andy dive right into the incredible feedback/response from episode #81's question about choosing not to have kids and how to deal with the pressure/judgment from others. Who knew this was such a h0tbutton topic?! Then they discuss listener questions about whether to follow through with a marriage when you're still dating and interested in other people, whether or not to tell a white lie about knowing a special surprise your honey has planned, how to handle starting out in the real world, post college, and how to handle the guest list for a destination wedding - extended family or not? Enjoy!

Direct download: Totally_Married_ep83.mp3
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Elizabeth and Andy play the fun game: "What I'd miss most if you died" Then they answer listener questions about dealing with annoying friends who think they're parenting style is better, when in a relationship one should share their struggle with depression, how to get immersed in the world of podcasting and build listeners, and lastly - a question posed to all our gay laimewads/weds out there: when should a father tell his young son that it's okay to be gay? Enjoy!

Direct download: Totally_Married_ep82.mp3
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