Totally Married (general)

In this pre-recorded episode due to travel, Elizabeth and Andy dive right into listener questions about a husband who's little white lies about his ahem, habits,  are starting to take their toll, whether or not to tell a good friend that they are clearly not ready for the responsibility of dog ownership, what to do when one feels like they are "outgrowing" their marriage, and lastly, how to cope emotionally with becoming a nurturing mother by day but a freak of the week in bed by night :) Enjoy!

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HOLY SMOKES, LAIMEWEDS!! We made it! We are so thrilled to have come this far and owe everything to you~ Tune into today for a eery big announcement that we are thrilled to share with you. Love you all!

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One away from our big 100th episode extravaganza! Today, we discuss our dream birthday parties if there were no restrictions, then we answer listener questions about dudes ending friendships, if it's okay for a married couple to not be each other's best friend, how to gently tell a friend that she's making poor dating choices, how to handle having the "sex talk" with a stepson when his dad isn't game, and how to handle a negative, complaining co-worker who is wearing on your last nerve! Enjoy!

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After a whirlwind night of soundchecking and rock n rolling, Elizabeth and Andy attempt to check in for a late night podcast session, then they answer listener questions about infidelity for a soon-to-be-wed, how to work through a communication/trust breach with a partner who doesn't see it that way, and lastly, how to handle going on a job hunt when pregnant. Enjoy!

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Andy and Elizabeth discuss what athletic/performance endeavors gets each other going as well as Andy's upcoming Meg Myers show with the Pixies (!!) before diving into some sad listener questions about teen drug dependence, putting a beloved dog to sleep and how to break the news to a child. Also, a question about guys' obsession with anal sex, how to deal with a partner who doesn't have the same physical affection boundaries as yourself and what to do in a relationship that is turning serious for you but perhaps not for the other person? Enjoy!

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Sometimes in a podcast about marriage, we stumble upon things about ourselves that we've not shared with our partner. And sometimes those things are extremely weird, extremely personal and also true! In today's episode, Elizabeth does just that before she and Andy answer listener questions about whether or not to little white lie about how you conceived a child, what to do when you don't want to donate your artistic skills to a wedding you're not a fan of, and lastly - an old standby: to divorce or not to divorce when things have hit the skids? Enjoy!

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Andy pitches his million dollar movie idea to Elizabeth, who has three guesses on the title! Then they answer listener questions about when/how/if to reveal to a partner that you are a virgin, how to navigate a new relationship where there's a weight/health/fitness issue already in place, whether or not to take on a new last name when getting married, whether hanging onto friends after a divorce is worth it if they aren't investing back, and lastly, kids in entertainment? Is that a good idea and if so, how do you know if your kids have what it takes? Enjoy!

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Andy tells a very in depth story about his recent potty escapades before he and E answer listener questions about how to seek out therapy when your family doesn't support it, how to navigate keeping sex sexy when you're trying to conceive, whether or not it's a good idea for a gal to go to a bar alone to meet people, how a dude can be supportive to his dude friend who is suffering a broken heart, and whether or not to tell a sibling that they are making a huge mistake by getting married to a guy who is not the right fit. Enjoy!

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First off, Andy and Elizabeth discuss the massive follow up to last episodes discussion regarding division of household labor in their own relationship and let you know what sort of compromises they came to - whew! Then they dive into listener questions about how to build distance and boundaries in a friendship with a co-worker, how to test the waters with a friend whom you'd like to be more than a friend (but not at the sake of the friendship!),  whether or not it's worth it to go to a more expensive "dream" college or stick with a practical state school, how to move on from a relationship that ended with no closure whatsoever, and lastly.... Are boob stares kosher? If so, how to? Enjoy!

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Y'all. Marriage isn't always roses. And we are married, so.... Shit gets real in this episode. Then Andy and Elizabeth answer listener questions about different work ethics within a relationship, how to handle a rambunctious puppy, and what to do when your husband's sex drive has gone sayonara. Enjoy!

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