Totally Married
263 - Defining Success!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss the big "E" = Ego! Plus, how we define success and why a letter to a third grader brought tears to Elizabeth's eyes. Then they give their unqualified advice to listener questions about how to referee a mother and husband who do not get along and how much are we obligated to share about the skeletons in our closets when we start dating someone seriously? Enjoy!

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262 - Social Media Heave-Ho!

Andy tells Elizabeth about his social media epiphany and why he's going "lights out" before they give their unqualified advice to listener questions about how to navigate future in law visits who overstay their welcome, what to do about a terrible mother in law who has your husband on her side when it comes to your child, how to engage with dating now that you are older and wiser, what to do about requests for formal titles that feel weird, and how much energy should we put into righting the wrongs in our lives?

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261 - The Longest Running Totally Podcast!

Wow, 261 episodes! Elizabeth and Andy discuss Tony Robbins, people who reference "mentors" a lot, and the fragility of the human psyche. Then they give their unqualified advice to listener questions about negotiating a wedding guest list with an overbearing future mother in law, what a nice way to memorialize a deceased parent at a wedding is, how to request privacy from neighbors who also happen to be your in laws, what to suggest to a depressed and sick mother in law to get her help, and how to explain why it's not appropriate for a spouse to have an emotionally intimate relationship with a friend of the opposite sex? Enjoy!

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260 - Product Enthusiasm!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss the recent addition to their food storage items which has sent Elizabeth into a tizzy of delight. Then they give their unqualified advice to listener questions about how to see eye to eye with a spouse who doesn't understand where you are coming from, what to do about a relationship that is promising aside from major trust issues and untreated depression, how to break the news to your spouse that he's been picking his nose like crazy, and lastly what to do about the couple in your friend group who always requires you to bring the food? Enjoy!

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259 - Bug In Ear Fear!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss their lovely morning involving Andy's worst fear realized, but by Elizabeth. Then they give their unqualified advice to listener questions about a brother in law who is riding the white horse, how to date a girl with a dog, what to do about some jealousy issues in an otherwise great relationship, what the end of show song means to E and A, and how to deal with a friend who takes forevahhhh to get ready? Enjoy!

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258 - Tending Towards Chaos!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss working towards dreams, feminism, defending what's right and how we can combat the chaos of the world - aka, politics, baby! Then they give their unqualified advice to a listener question about how to deal with a crush turned creepy? Enjoy!

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257 - Friendships Ahoy!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss the waxing and waning of important friendships before giving their unqualified advice to listener questions about whether or not to reveal your more serious feelings to someone you are in a casual relationship with, how to give the brush off to an old boyfriend who keeps texting, and whether being a bridesmaid means you are not allowed to have a life? Enjoy!

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256 - Independence Interruption!

Happy Fourth of July Laimeweds! In today's (interrupted - blame it on le bebe!) episode, Andy and Elizabeth discuss fireworks memories, Dog vs. God and of course give their unqualified advice to listener questions about masturbation, past life regrets that haunt you, how to navigate "too busy" friendships, how to handle life when it deals several difficult blows, and how to find a great new therapist while breaking up with your current one? Enjoy!

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255 - People Be Cray!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss why a washed bottle goes a long way in their home these days! Then they give their unqualified advice to some MAJOR listener questions about whether or not disliking a future SIL makes you a trashbag, if it's worth it to take a leap of life and travel abroad when there are some big potential hurdles, how to move on and heal from a major betrayal of trust by your partner of fourteen years, whether or not to reach out to an ex in times of tragedy, and whether to remain in contact with a newly discovered birthfather who might be a total trashbag? Enjoy!

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254 - Happy Father's Day!

Elizabeth and Andy give our Laimedads a father's day shoutout before diving right into listener questions! They give their unqualified advice on how to handle a disrespectful sister in law, what to do about your sister who is marrying a guy you dislike immensely, how to set boundaries with a very opinionated future mother in law, and what to do about a spouse's secret donut ritual that just isn't sitting right? Enjoy!

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