Totally Married
269 - Be Present!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss anxiety dreams and the art of being present before giving their unqualified advice to listener questions about how to address the heart of a weight problem, what's the deal with leasing a car, how to navigate a relationship with a man who is a father and isn't going "public" with your relationship, what to do about a friendship that ended without closure, and how to re-flame a sex life that is lagging due to schedules and stress? Enjoy!

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268 - East West Girls Are Best!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss her recent foray into the world of mind expansion as well as what they've been legitimately arguing about lately (hint: starts with Bu, ends with Jo). Then they give their unqualified advice to listener questions about attending twentieth highschool reunions with your significant other, whether or not to get a wedding gift for a friend who did not do the same for you, how they got their start podcasting and what equipment they use, whether or not to move forward with an ex friend coming to visit even though it might be weird, and how to address a small but important lie you've caught your boyfriend in? Enjoy!

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267 - What's Your I Love You Number?

Elizabeth and Andy discuss pitching, the #bujo saga and they even learn each others i love you numbers! Then they give their unqualified advice to listener questions about reluctantly keeping a family secret from your husband, how to handle being a relationship with someone who in disinterested in pulling their financial weight, what to do about a boyfriend who is taking his sweet time saying I love you, what to do about a toxic friend and roommate, and lastly how to be supportive of a friend who is in denial about losing his mother? Enjoy!

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266 - Kinda Intense, Bro!

Trigger Warning - Elizabeth and Andy go deep and discuss listener questions about child sexual abuse, the merit (or non) of porn in a marriage, and whether or not to move out from under overbearing parents or not. Not before we dive deep into BULLET JOURNALS though! #BUJO4LYFE. Stay tuned for this kinda intense episode, eeep!

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265 - Nada Worry!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss the purpose of worry, Frasier and ego before giving their extremely unqualified advice to listener questions about a lack of sex drive at a young age, whether to stay in an unsupportive marriage with five kids, whether to intervene with an ex who is suffering from mental illness, whether to go through with a marriage to someone who seems increasingly selfish, and if it's normal to crave cuddling to an extent that it's affecting your relationships? Enjoy!

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263 - Defining Success!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss the big "E" = Ego! Plus, how we define success and why a letter to a third grader brought tears to Elizabeth's eyes. Then they give their unqualified advice to listener questions about how to referee a mother and husband who do not get along and how much are we obligated to share about the skeletons in our closets when we start dating someone seriously? Enjoy!

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262 - Social Media Heave-Ho!

Andy tells Elizabeth about his social media epiphany and why he's going "lights out" before they give their unqualified advice to listener questions about how to navigate future in law visits who overstay their welcome, what to do about a terrible mother in law who has your husband on her side when it comes to your child, how to engage with dating now that you are older and wiser, what to do about requests for formal titles that feel weird, and how much energy should we put into righting the wrongs in our lives?

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261 - The Longest Running Totally Podcast!

Wow, 261 episodes! Elizabeth and Andy discuss Tony Robbins, people who reference "mentors" a lot, and the fragility of the human psyche. Then they give their unqualified advice to listener questions about negotiating a wedding guest list with an overbearing future mother in law, what a nice way to memorialize a deceased parent at a wedding is, how to request privacy from neighbors who also happen to be your in laws, what to suggest to a depressed and sick mother in law to get her help, and how to explain why it's not appropriate for a spouse to have an emotionally intimate relationship with a friend of the opposite sex? Enjoy!

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260 - Product Enthusiasm!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss the recent addition to their food storage items which has sent Elizabeth into a tizzy of delight. Then they give their unqualified advice to listener questions about how to see eye to eye with a spouse who doesn't understand where you are coming from, what to do about a relationship that is promising aside from major trust issues and untreated depression, how to break the news to your spouse that he's been picking his nose like crazy, and lastly what to do about the couple in your friend group who always requires you to bring the food? Enjoy!

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259 - Bug In Ear Fear!

Elizabeth and Andy discuss their lovely morning involving Andy's worst fear realized, but by Elizabeth. Then they give their unqualified advice to listener questions about a brother in law who is riding the white horse, how to date a girl with a dog, what to do about some jealousy issues in an otherwise great relationship, what the end of show song means to E and A, and how to deal with a friend who takes forevahhhh to get ready? Enjoy!

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